To my now friend, later best friend, soon girlfriend and future wife part 2!

I am fascinated by the blog of this man, on how he really wanted to honor God with his relationship. So I am re-blogging his thoughts.God bless you brother! :)

At certain point of my life, I met a woman who help me to be better person. She is a woman of simplicity, discipline, righteousness and conviction. Grace is completely eminent into her life. Many acknowledges her beauty but what's transpires to me most is her soft loving fragile heart. She is a woman of faith, an agent of love and a source of hope to many. This woman inspire me to grow in my relationship with the Lord and be more closer to him than I ever was.

Then one day, I caught myself uttering words of hope through prayers that someday, she will be my princess. Each night I pray the kind of future we have, it is worth having if we're together. That the Lord is the center of our relationship and our story inspires more people to earnestly seeking him with all of their might and with all of their strength. She suddenly became the woman behind my #Dearfuturewife post.

ACCEPTING SOMEONE'S PAST

In my early 20’s, as conventional as it may sound, I wanted my partner to have never had a girlfriend before. I wanted to be his first and last. And whomever I choose to be my boyfriend, I wanted him to be my husband.

The Reason Behind.

As much as possible, I don't want a partner who invested so much emotion with someone else.
I don't like the thought of him already had both emotional and physical intimacy. I believe that those things should be reserve for marriage.


So I have lived that standard and had a boyfriend who never really had a girlfriend before. Despite of that fact, things did not work well for us. He loved a woman before me and he still loves her while being in relationship with me. Epic failed.


The Lord is Sovereign.

The Lord changed me after that season of my life. He opened my eyes to the truth that sometimes things will not work out the way we wanted it to be. Sometimes because of our stubbornness or may be that needs to happen for us to grow. He is sovereign.